Women-Sense

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Archive for January, 2007

Have you taken notice that whenever you are about to embark on a business venture, that old demon, Fear of Failure pays you a visit? And nearly paralyzes you? You get those annoying butterflies in your stomach and sleepless nights have you imagining all sorts of painful events. You picture yourself the object of scorn, or worse the object of pity. So you put off trying for the umteenth time, and abandon your dreams.

You are sure that the successful individuals, the superstars of this world must possess some magic blueprint to prosperity that is hidden from the majority of us. You conclude they must be empowered with courage and ingenuity that you cannot match. No so. The success magnates of this world would be the first to tell you that they are no different. They have been visited by the Demon, Fear of Failure, and have had their share of unsuccessful ventures.

You see, Fear of Failure is embodied in all of us. Each of us is apprehensive of an unknown outcome. By nature we like to know what to expect. We like our expectations to be comfortable. We seek approval and gratification and prefer to avoid painful experiences that bring rejection and self-incrimination.

How then do we slay the demon, Fear of Failure, and realize our dreams? There are a few basic steps that will enable victory. Does this mean you will not have failures? Of course not, you will experience some failure. Without failure you cannot succeed. You can adjust your viewpoint, however, and dispel an unhealthy Fear of Failure.

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The other night I went to my favorite buffet as I was craving a juicy rare steak. I was refused a rare steak. The reason given was the danger of e coli infection. I surmise that the establishments are fearful of lawsuits. the danger of E. coli infection. Does bacterial contamination mean that you will get sick.

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When dealing with other people, your goal should be to develop a rapport. You will improve the quality of your relationships if you learn the art of agreeableness. Develop an agreeable feeling within the minds of others towards you. What does it mean to be agreeable? In the simplest terms, being agreeable means being in harmony.

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In today’s world of technology we do not have ample opportunity to get personal. Life is fast-paced and everyone seems to be in a rush. We dial the phone and we talk to machines. We spend long hours on the computer playing games, emailing one another or working with our web pages. Even in the office environment, we email the person in the cubicle 3 feet away instead of walking over to hand them a task list. Do you conclude as I do that we need more of a personal touch?

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